Do You Feel Like Your Daughter Has Lost Who She Is?

What if you could guide her to discover her true self—before the world tries to define her?

The tween years can be tough. Your daughter is navigating a world full of changing expectations, pressures from friends, social media, and the rapid growth of her own identity. Some days she seems confident, and other days, she feels lost or uncertain about who she truly is.

As a mom, it’s tough to watch your daughter face the confusion, self-doubt, and pressure that comes with growing up. One day she’s confident, and the next, she feels lost. The tween years are full of questions:

  • Who am I?

  • Am I good enough?

  • How do I fit in?

If you’ve noticed your daughter struggling to define herself, you’re not alone. These years can be challenging, but your daughter doesn’t have to navigate them alone.

This printable offers 32 empowering identity statements that will help your daughter discover who she truly is (enough for an entire month!!). These affirmations will help her develop a strong sense of self and stay grounded in her worth, no matter the pressures she faces.

Why This Matters:

When your daughter understands her true identity in Christ, she won’t be shaken by fleeting opinions or societal pressures. She’ll feel:

  • Confident in who she is

  • Grounded in her purpose

  • Empowered to face any challenge that comes her way

As her mom, you can help her build this foundation. These affirmations will guide her through these difficult years and set her up for a future filled with strength and confidence.You don’t have to wait for her to "figure it out." Help her uncover her true identity and guide her through these confusing years. When she knows who she is, she can face anything that comes her way with strength and confidence.

How It Works:

  • Print out the powerful identity statements

  • Place them where your daughter can see them: in her lunchbox, on her mirror, in her backpack

  • Discuss them together at dinner or as part of your nightly routine

  • Encourage her to embrace each statement as a truth about who she is

These identity statements will help your daughter define herself, not based on others' opinions, but on who God says she is.

Let me ask you some questions. Does the uncertainty:

  • hurt your relationship with her?

  • cause stressful interactions in texts and in person?

  • cause stressful mornings?

  • create explosive evenings rather than peaceful ones?

  • make you want to pull your hair out?

  • leave you feeling exhausted and drained?

  • affect how you feel as a mom?

  • make you hurt for your daughter?

But it doesn't have to be this way.

She can be confident in who she is.

Don't let the world define your daughter. Give her the tools she needs to build a strong, confident, and grounded sense of self—starting today!